venus in 12th house synastry forum

venus in 12th house synastry forum

and yourself? It's as if nither of us are ready to let go fully. I actually feel I treated him wrong although he was a person whos been there for me when I was going through the hard time. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? I understand this. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. Either come correct or go away. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. At last i also found out that he was hidding some parts of his life. Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. Most often, this includes banking, art and value-related activities. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. What I have found in common is that they both were very aggressive, affectionate and attached to me at the beginning, but once after, i state to feel I dont know them or what their true intentions are, and left me somehow insecure and confused. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. Anyone else care to share? ------------------Air woman. This is why this house also holds our hidden enemies. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). I have something of a business relationship with someone. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . Knowflake. Ill blink and its 1am. But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. In synastry, composite, transits, solar returns.always the bringing the worst. When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. So strange in this 12th house. My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. . When dealing with the spirit world, there are both positive and negative, you know good and bad people and spirits. They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. He does tell me how he feels about me. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. It is because mars is a harsher planet? But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. Can you tell me whats really going on here? Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. W. hen someone's Venus falls in your 1st house, that person probably finds you physically attractive. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. It's all about 12th house. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. Never felt this way in my life. There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. I leave, but I always come back after a while. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. maybe it was some inner knowledge of how he is deep inside. Just not every second. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. Any info i'll share with you later. I felt, I felt sooo hard, in a glance, while looking in his eyes, and feeling like I had know this person for ages. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. Lol. I think anyway 12th house is involved. When wondering around in someones 12th or they in yours? I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. His response have a huge impact upon me. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. few months later he married her. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. I feel like we are very secretive together though like we are very codependent on one another and thats really it ..so far .. I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. Just give it time and have moderately high standards for yourself. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. Having someones sun in your 12th though, I dont believe it is a nice experience for the planet person, especially a fire sun. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. i had experience with a guy who have 4 benefic planets in my 12th house. Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. However, it was my Venus in his h12th. Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. That said, I do know something about this. i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. She longs for a partner who will just let her "be": someone who will go with the flow, and give her plenty of alone time (12th House natal planets often demand periods of isolation). To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? Hi Aida! The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. Now i know why. He might love you but in his own way. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. Sign up here! At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. I agree with your experience. Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. If he truely loves you, he will sooner or later find his way back to you. The feeling that I am the only one dealing with the 12th house issues is so painful. where is your Neptune? Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? Hes cuddly and affectionate so that makes up for it. But all of my life I have been in the habit of TWOISMS . Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. I attracted those people in my relationship. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. How is in your case? He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. My own Dad was a Sun/Gemini native who made TWIN SIGN siblings (he was a classic Gemini man with multiple marriages and households, lol!) Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. Two+ years in most cases (which makes me want to just go HIDE in my bed under the covers, lol!) The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. I forgot to say my venus is in his first house and when we met it was like that scene from twilight where Edward walks into the cafeteria in slow motion, the wind was blowing (indoors!) And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. A stripping of the egos for sure! Im so obsessed with him. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. Hi GeminiRising! Why this could be happen? I need help with my situation. Venus in 12th entirely depends on how well both people can handle Neptune. Now, I broke off the friendship and he can't contact me. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? so the judging becomes like, omg i am judging myself kind of thing lol I beleive this is mostly for those aware and can face truth/accept themselves however greatly flawed and love themselves. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! Sorry, Mr. Gemini . was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. I will try to expand on it in greater detail for ya, so check back:). Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. I didnt want to talk about it untill he would be back home. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. Venus in the Houses in Synastry. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). He seemed very interested at first but the moment he felt I was getting attached he used the I am not looking for a relationship card. Thinking this would help. Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. It ended when I invited him to my fathers birthday and he just couldnt do it (insert childhood issue here). OH! I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. I can relate to almost all you've been saying. I dont know despite how he treats me I just always want to help him and at the time I thought if needing space was what would help him fine but I can never seem to tell him that. It turned into something of a horror show, and although I made the decision to cut all ties, every time I would weaken and go back I would get BLUDGEONED emotionally and psychically. why am I'm alone. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. Ive cut our contact channels. Should I run now?? I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. It's true that when someone touches our soul in deep connection, they could teach us a lesson. One is Taurus and the other is Libra. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. thanks for visiting! Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. It may not display this or other websites correctly. =). Orange. An at one point he came to me, looked me in the eyesand asked me: " do I know you?" I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. Very confusing . So we became " friends" . It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real?

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